Not if she’s The One. Wives and significant oth-
ers are off-limits in conversations between men, be-
cause no man wants you thinking about his woman
any kind of way, much less in a romantic or sexual
way. Every man is clear on this. However, if you’re
not The One—you’re just someone that we’re “do-
ing” while we look for The One—then you will be
talked about, rest assured.
Look, if you don’t have a good relationship with
his mother, and she doesn’t care for you, it is going to
be stressful. Any woman who has been in a relation-
ship with a man for ninety days should have met the
family already, and if he hasn’t introduced you, then
you either need to ask why, or you should pretty much
accept that he’s not interested in forging a long-term
relationship with you. If you’re good enough for him
to make it to his bed, you should be good enough to
meet his mother.