around his family? Why is he doing all this if he
doesn’t want a relationship?”
Simple. He enjoys the relationship benefits you’re
giving him. Just like you, he enjoys the intimacy. He
enjoys the companionship. He enjoys all that you’re
bringing to the table. Even with all of that, he also
knows he doesn’t want to be obligated and
committed to you.
I understand that this might be a bit harsh.
However, I’m not saying this to hurt your feelings.
I’m sharing this with you to help you avoid the BS.
He could really like you. He could even view you as
a great woman and still not see you as the woman
for him.
I admit that it’s a very tricky thing. It trips up a
lot of women. He’s going to give you a lot of the
energy that says, “I like you. I even value you to a
certain extent.” As true as this is, it doesn’t mean he
sees you as the woman he really wants to be coupled
up with. It also doesn’t mean he sees you as his
future wife.
Unfortunately, a lot of men out of selfishness,
greed, narcissism in some situations, are still going
16 HE’S LYING SIS