Are you as confused as I am? What the hell is he
talking about? What does he mean he doesn’t
understand what to do? You just told him what you
needed. What does he mean he doesn’t understand
how to fix this? It’s simple. He can pick up the dang
phone and call you. That’s it. It doesn’t get any
easier than that.
Listen to me. When you’re flat out explaining to
him what you’re looking for and he responds to you
in a way that says he wasn’t listening or doesn’t care,
that means he’s not serious about you or he’s not
ready for the relationship. Either way, you don’t
need to stick around waiting for him to come
around. It’s a waste of your time. Plain and simple.
As I’ve stressed in previous chapters already,
always make sure you communicate the issue to him
before taking any action. You always want to make
sure you address whatever is bothering you in a calm
and loving manner. I will never encourage you to
lash out at him or come off as attacking when
addressing your issues. Even if you think he’s a liar.
Going into the conversation, if you think he’s a liar,
then that means the issue is bigger than what you’re
54 HE’S LYING SIS