However, it’s not the time to pursue it. You
should not entertain feelings for him because he’s
still married. I’m not even going to say technically
because there is no technical.
Separated still means married.
Until he’s divorced, until those papers are signed,
done, stamped by the judge or whatever happens at
the courthouse when you get a divorce, this man is
still married. Ignoring it doesn’t change the facts.
Andrea ignored the facts and found herself
caught between a rock and a hard place. In her
situation, he wasn’t lying. He was separated and the
divorce did finally happen. However, after almost
three years of Andrea waiting, once he was divorced,
he realized he wasn’t ready to get right back into
another serious relationship. Andrea ended up
walking away feeling like it was a huge waste of her
time. Not to mention hurt because while she was
waiting, she invested all her feelings and energy into
him. She just knew it was going to work out once he
divorced. In the end, it didn’t.
Now that we’ve explored the scenario where the
man in the situation was being genuine and honest.
86 HE’S LYING SIS