Buffers are a way to not allow yourself to fully
dive into the emotional aspect of a relationship while
still being able to enjoy relationship benefits like:
companionship, intimacy, having someone to spend
time with, etc. Now, this point only applies to
women who knew what they were getting
themselves into from the very beginning. It’s one
thing if you didn’t know. But when you know, you’ve
got to ask yourself, “Why am I entertaining this?”
Be honest with yourself.
Even if the situationship starts off casual and
you’re not emotionally invested, you can still find
yourself caught up in the end. You can still find
yourself becoming emotionally attached to a certain
degree and struggling to walk away after things take
a turn toward reconciliation. Again, not because he’s
the best man for you, but because this was a
comforting situation. It created a type of comfort
zone for you. It was easy for you to hold on to
because you didn’t have to put yourself completely
out there.
Bottom line, he’s still married, which means he’s
not available. You have no idea if he’s really going to
get a divorce and you don’t need to hang around
90 HE’S LYING SIS