principles of, 56–61
rehearsing use of, 110 , 186
simplicity of, 57
lying, 198–99, 227
“magical people,” 39–40
manipulation, 114
materialism, 245
maturity, 14 , 22 , 130
meals, 84 . See also eating
as consequences, 208
missing, 52 , 72 , 77 , 91 , 94 , 161
media, 30
memory, 61
messages, 37–39. See also communication
destructive, 54 , 217
empathy in, 107 , 108
win-win, 114
misbehavior. See behavior
mistakes
allowing children to make, 13 , 62 , 65
anger at, 53
consequences of. See consequences
costs of, 25 , 248
learning from, 33
as learning opportunities, 51–64, 85
in Love and Logic system use, 111
nullifying, 24
reactions to, 106
second chances, 233
modeling, 40–41, 48–50, 111 , 162
adult behavior, 55 , 65–66, 188
church attendance, 139 , 140