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8. Lois Walfrid Johnson, Either Way, I Win: A Guide to Growth in the Power of Prayer (Minneapolis: Augsburg, 1979).


9. Earnie Larsen does a similar meditation exercise at the end of his seminars.

Chapter 6

1. William Backus and Marie Chapian, Telling Yourself the Truth (Minneapolis: Bethany Fellowship, 1980).

Chapter 7

1. Eda LeShan, ''Beware the Helpless,'' Woman's Day, 26 April 1983.

Chapter 8

1. Claude M. Steiner, Scripts People Live (New York: Grove Press, 1974).


2. Ibid.; Claude M. Steiner, Games Alcoholics Play (New York: Grove Press, 1971); and Claude M. Steiner, What Do
   You Say After You Say Hello? (New York: Grove Press, 1972).

Chapter 9

1. Penelope Russianoff, Why Do I Think I'm Nothing Without a Man? (New York: Bantam Books, 1982); Theodore I.
   Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company,
   1975), 278.


2. Janet Geringer Woititz, "Co-Dependency: The Insidious Invader of Intimacy," in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue
   (Hollywood, FL Health Communications, 1984), 56.


3. Rubin, Compassion, 196.


4. Colette Dowling, The Cinderella Complex: Women's Hidden Fear of Independence (New York: Pocket Books, 1981).


5. Ibid., 152-53.


6. Ibid.


7. Russianoff, Why Do I Think I'm Nothing.

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8. Dowling, The Cinderella Complex, 22.


9. Kathy Capell-Sowder, "On Being Addicted to the Addict: Co-Dependent Relationships," in Co-Dependency, 23. See
   also Stanton Peele and Archie Brodsky, Love and Addiction (New York: New American Library, 1975).

Chapter 10

1. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston:
   Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 53.


2. Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David
   McKay Company, 1975), 65.


3. Ibid.

Chapter 11

1. Theodore 1. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David