achievement of, 202
attainable, 162, 214, 254
expressed, 258
making positive, 189
making specific, 189
positive, 259
realistic appraisal of, 162
responsibility for attaining, 189
setting, 170, 201
specific, 259
therapeutic, 13, 39, 40, 257, 259, 261, 263
unattainable, 162, 182
who sets, 256–257
working toward, 214
Goldilocks, 19, 25, 26
Goodwin, E. A., 38
Grandparent(s), xvii, 3, 266, 268, 274
Greed, 50, 132, 167, 184
Greek philosophers, 139
Green, S., 212
Greenley, R.N., 155
Grief, 9, 26, 110, 121, 139, 140, 141, 160,
193, 214, 220, 225, 235, 248, 254
management skills, 174
managing, 220
Grimm, Jacob, 13, 245
Guidelines, 15–29, 253–254
for effective storytelling, 16–25
for the storyteller’s voice, 25–29
for using personal life stories, 253–254
Guilt, 28, 74, 121
Gullone, E., 102
Haidt, J., 246
Hallberg, E. T., 24
Happy(iness), xx, 32, 47, 58, 95, 102, 121,
122, 124, 126, 145, 173, 182, 189, 206,
213, 214, 216, 225, 235, 246
Hare and The Tortoise, The, 20
Hatred, 50, 221
Haley, J., 10
Harry Potter, 10, 19, 43, 233, 242
INDEXIndex 299
Healing, 11–13, 37, 231, 245, 270
story(ies), 211, 229, 237, 238, 243, 245
kids’ own, 211–226
why tell, 3–4
Helena College, 211, 247, 252
Helping, 118, 143
Helpless(ness), 47, 49, 55, 57, 61, 78, 178, 241
Heroes, 10, 242
Metaphors built on, 242–243
Hesley, J. G., 33
Hesley, J. W., 33
Hill, P. 213
Hillman, S., 253
Holmbeck, G. N., 155
Homework:
assignment, 43
exercise, 31, 81, 211, 247
Hope, 206, 223, 232, 235, 239, 248
Hopeful(ness), 174, 176, 214, 241
Hopeless(ness), 55, 57, 78, 174, 175
Hostility, 9, 132
Hubble, M., 253
Humor, xx, 30, 38–39, 121, 131, 144, 163,
176, 200, 232, 244
as metaphors, 249
comedy of errors, 249
jokes, 250
metaphors built on, 249–250
mischievous stories, 250
naughty stories, 250
“yucky” stories, 249–250
Hurt(ing), 194, 195, 204, 221
Hypnosis, 3, 27, 244
Ericksonian, 244Identification, 19, 232, 262
Illness, 9, 193, 199, 245
Image(ry), 41, 200
Imagination, 3, 25, 200, 245, 247, 252
metaphors built on, 243–244
Inadequacy, 70, 212
Indecision, 62, 64, 165