One of my comedy buddies tried to help me:
Comedy Buddy: “Tiĉany, you need to just smile and
don’t say shit. Look at the dude. Smile and then look
away. If they like you, they going to come for you.
You’re a beautiful girl. You should never say, ‘Damn,
you look beefy’ or ‘You’re handsome.’ You don’t need
to do that.”
For most guys, I think he is right. For most guys, if a
woman approaches them, they don’t know how to process
it.
If you’re a woman and you compliment a guy, even
something simple like, “Oh, nice shoes,” and you don’t work
with them every day, you’re not seeing them every day, it’s
just some guy you meet and you compliment them—they
think something is wrong with your pussy. ͳey think, even
subconsciously, that your pussy must be broke.
ͳat’s why so many guys tell me, “You be acting thirsty.”
Comedy Buddy always says this:
Comedy Buddy: “You act like you’re an ugly girl.
You’re like an ugly girl inside of you, but a pretty girl
on the outside. Did you know that?”
It’s like fat people who lose weight, in their head, they’re
still that fat person they used to be.
ͳe other day, I was thinking about why I am like this. I
think I act like this, and I end up picking jealous and