IMPORTANT NOTE ABOUT
OUTSIDE OPINIONS: While you are
unauthorized to base your self-worth on
what other people think, it doesn’t mean
you should miss out on the opportunity to
benefit from outside input altogether.
Especially input from those who know
you well.
There is such a thing as constructive
criticism, and constructive
complimenting. But whether or not they
are constructive depends on you.
For example, if people have been
telling you for years that you’re a
hothead, that they feel like they can’t be
open with you because the second you
disagree with them you blow up in their