in-laws, fantasizing about pantsing our
loudmouth, incompetent bosses in front
of a the whole office, unloading fault on
other people, and rolling around in our
minds the many reasons why our
enemies are wrong and the many reasons
why we’re right.
We relive our worst moments over
and over and over instead of letting them
go, we pick at the emotional scabs and
refuse to let the healing happen and the
pain subside. We won’t rest until we’ve
made sure someone else feels as badly
as they’ve just made us feel. If I have to
suffer my entire life I will make sure
you see how you’ve wronged me! We
cling to the resentments that take up our