so so awful is like pulling a bullet out of
your arm: You may kick and scream and
hate it at first, but, in the long run, it’s the
only way to start the real healing.
One of the best tricks for doing this is
to imagine the person you’re resentful of
as a little kid. Think of this little person
acting out of fear, doing the best they can
to protect themselves and attempting to
deal with their own suffering in the only
way they know how. People act poorly
because they are in pain or confused or
both. Understanding this, and imagining
the person who you want to behead as a
sweet little innocent child with big
puppy dog eyes, will help you find
compassion for them, which is the key to