all worked up about them now?
Whatever or whomever you’re needing
to forgive in this moment will most
likely be a mere blip not very long from
now (depending on the severity of the
situation, of course). So why make a
huge drama out of it if you’re only going
to forget all about it one day? See it as
the future non-event that it is and start
forgiving and forgetting right away.
When it comes to forgiveness, what
you actually have to DO is not hard. It’s
like quitting smoking—you actually do
less than you do when you smoke. You
don’t have to go to the store to buy
cigarettes, you don’t have to open the
pack, light one up, find an ashtray, etc.