When you find yourself dealing with
someone who irritates you (and you find
yourself getting gossipy, fingerpointy,
judgy, complainey), rising up and
confronting the situation can do a hell of
a lot more than just making your life
more pleasant in the long run; it can help
you heal and grow and get out of victim
mode. Because it forces you to deal with
the gnarlier aspects of yourself, the parts
that make you not so proud. None of us
care to admit that we’re dishonest,
conceited, insecure, unethical, mean,
bossy, stupid, lazy, etc., but that’s what
attracted you to the people you notice it
in, and them to you, in the first place.
And admitting it is the first step in letting
tuis.
(Tuis.)
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