stronger than your fear
of not getting what you
want.
It’s like hiring someone to clean your
house so you can focus on the other work
you enjoy doing. You explain in detail
what they’re supposed to do, show them
where the broom is, tell them you’ll beat
them to death if they break the ceramic
mugs your niece made for you, but you
trust them with the job. If you’re
constantly hovering over them and
grabbing the sponge out of their hands
—here, let me do that!—they’ll never