know if you don’t come it will be
awesome. Their party is going to rock.
They believe this in their hearts. It is the
truth.
Now imagine that someone else
invites you to a different party. This
person demands that you come, acts like
their party will be a gigantic failure
unless you show up and reminds you that
they came to your last party so you have
to come to theirs. They are whiney,
manipulative, controlling, a big fat drag.
They know they can have an awesome
party, and really believe they can, but
have decided that it all depends on you
coming.
Both people can do the same exact