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March   2nd

ACCURATE    SELF-ASSESSMENT

“Above  all,    it  is  necessary   for a   person  to  have    a   true    self-estimate,  for we  commonly    think   we

can do  more    than    we  really  can.”

—SENECA,    ON  TRANQUILITY OF  MIND,   5.2

ost people resist the idea of a true self-estimate, probably because they fear it might mean
downgrading some of their beliefs about who they are and what they’re capable of. As Goethe’s
maxim goes, it is a great failing “to see yourself as more than you are.” How could you really be
considered self-aware if you refuse to consider your weaknesses?
Don’t fear self-assessment because you’re worried you might have to admit some things about
yourself. The second half of Goethe’s maxim is important too. He states that it is equally damaging to
“value yourself at less than your true worth.” Is it not equally common to be surprised at how well we’re
able to handle a previously feared scenario? The way that we’re able to put aside the grief for a loved
one and care for others—though we always thought we’d be wrecked if something were to happen to our
parents or a sibling. The way we’re able to rise to the occasion in a stressful situation or a life-changing
opportunity.
We underestimate our capabilities just as much and just as dangerously as we overestimate other
abilities. Cultivate the ability to judge yourself accurately and honestly. Look inward to discern what
you’re capable of and what it will take to unlock that potential.