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Youmentioned"surrender"afewtimes.Idon'tlikethatidea.
It sounds somewhat fatalistic. If we always accept the way
things are, we are not going to make any effort to improve
them.Itseems tomewhatprogress is all about,both inour
personal lives and collectively, is not to accept the
limitationsofthepresentbuttostrivetogobeyondthemand
createsomethingbetter.Ifwehadn'tdonethis,wewouldstill
be living in caves. How do you reconcile surrender with
changingthingsandgettingthingsdone?
Tosome people,surrender mayhavenegativeconnotations,
implyingdefeat,givingup,failingtorisetothechallengesof
life,becominglethargic,andsoon.Truesurrender,however,
issomethingentirelydifferent.It doesnotmeantopassively
putupwithwhateversituationyoufindyourselfinandtodo
nothingabout it.Nor doesitmeantocease makingplans or
initiatingpositiveaction.
Surrender is the simple but profound wisdom of
yielding to rather than opposing the flow of life. The only
placewhereyoucan experiencetheflowof lifeistheNow,
so to surrender is to accept the present moment
unconditionally and without reservation. It is to relinquish
innerresistancetowhat is.Inner resistanceis tosay"no"to
what is, throughmental judgment andemotional negativity.
Itbecomesparticularlypronouncedwhenthings"gowrong,"
which means that there is a gap between the demands or
rigidexpectationsofyourmindandwhatis.That isthepain
gap. If you have lived long enough, you will know that