THE SEVEN HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE

CHURCH: "My" church, a status symbol. Source of unfair criticism or good things in life.
SELF: Defined by the things I own. Defined by social status, recognition.
PRINCIPLES: concepts which enable you to acquire and enhance possessions.

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  • If your center is Pleasure...
    PLEASURE: Supreme end in life.
    FRIENDS: Companions in fun.
    ENEMIES: Take life too seriously. Guilt trippers, destroyers.
    CHURCH: Inconvenient, obstacle to recreation. Guilt trip.
    SELF: Instrument for pleasure.
    PRINCIPLES: Natural drives and instincts which need to be satisfied.
  
  
  
  


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  • If your center is Friends...
    PLEASURE: Enjoyed always with friends. Primarily social events.
    FRIENDS: Critical to personal happiness. Belonging, acceptance, popularily is crucial.
    ENEMIES: Outside the social circle. Common enemies provide unity or definition for friendship.
    CHURCH: Place for social gathering.
    SELF: Socially defined. Afraid of embarrassment or rejection.
    PRINCIPLES: Basic laws which enable you to get along with others.
  
  
  
  


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  • This is the way you may tend to perceive other areas of your life.
  
  
  
  


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  • If your center is Enemies...
    FRIEND OR PLEASURE: Rest and relaxation time before the next battle.
    ENEMY OR FRIENDS: Emotional supporters and sympathizers. Possibly defined by common
    enemy.
    ENEMIES: Objects of hate. Source of personal problems. Stimuli to self-protection and
    self-justification.
    CHURCH: Source of self-justification.
    SELF: Victimized. Immobilized by enemy.
    PRINCIPLES: Justification for labeling enemies. Source of your enemy's wrongness.
  
  
  
  


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  • If your center is Church...
    FRIEND OR PLEASURE: "Innocent" pleasures as an opportunity to gather with other church
    members. Others as sinful or time wasters, to be self-righteously denied.
    ENEMY OR FRIENDS: Other members of the church.
    ENEMIES: Nonbelievers; those who disagree with church teachings or whose lives are in blatant
    opposition to them.
    CHURCH: Highest priority. Source of guidance.
    SELF: Self-worth is determined by activity in the church, contributions to the church, or performance
    of deeds that reflect the church ethic.
    PRINCIPLES: Doctrines taught by the church. Subordinate to the church.
  
  
  
  


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  • If your center is Self...
    FRIEND OR PLEASURE: Deserved sensate satisfactions. "My rights." "My needs.
    ENEMY OR FRIENDS: Supporter, provider for "me".
    ENEMIES: Source of self-definition, self-justification.
    CHURCH: Vehicle to serve self-interests.