often find that the person comes up with that very idea that’s
burning a hole in your brain. And if she doesn’t, then offer your
idea—as an idea, not disguised as a fake question.
Here’s Your New Habit
WHEN THIS HAPPENS...
I’ve got the answer, which I want to suggest...
INSTEAD OF...
Asking a fake question such as “Have you thought of...?” or “What
about...?” which is just advice with a question mark attached...
I WILL...
Ask one of the Seven Essential Questions. And if I want to present
an idea, I’ll offer it up as an option rather than a question.