- When you'vecooled offand you come back, talk aboutwhat was bothering you in a respectful,
nonblamingway,soshedoesn'timaginetheworst.
18 .Offertobuildafireinwintertime.
19 .Whenshetalkstoyou,putdownthemagazineorturnofftheTVandgiveheryourfullattention.
20 .Ifsheusuallywashesthedishes,occasionallyoffertowashthedishes,especiallyifsheistiredthatday.
21 .Noticewhensheisupsetortiredandaskwhatshehastodo.Thenoffertohelpbydoingafewofher
"todo"items.
22 .Whengoingout,askifthereisanythingshewantsyoutopickupatthestore,andremembertopickit
up.
23 .Letherknowwhenyouareplanningtotakeanaporleave.
24 .Giveherfourhugsaday.
25 .Callherfromworktoaskhowsheisortosharesomethingexcitingortotellher"Iloveyou."
26 .Tellher"Iloveyou"atleastacoupleoftimeseveryday.
27 .Makethebedandcleanupthebedroom.
28 .Ifshewashesyoursocks,turnyoursocksrightsideoutsoshedoesn'thaveto.
29 .Noticewhenthetrashisfullandoffertoemptyit.
30 .Whenyouareoutoftown,calltoleaveatelephonenumberwhereyoucanbereachedandtolether
knowyouarrivedsafely.
31 .Washhercar.
32 .Washyourcarandcleanuptheinteriorbeforeadatewithher.
33 .Washbeforehavingsexorputonacologneifshelikesthat.
34 .Takehersidewhensheisupsetwithsomeone.
35 .Offertogiveherabackorneckorfootmassage(orallthree).
36 .Makeapointofcuddlingorbeingaffectionate sometimeswithoutbeingsexual.
37 .Bepatientwhensheissharing.Don'tlookatyourwatch.
38 .Don'tflicktheremotecontroltodifferentchannelswhensheiswatchingTVwithyou.
39 .Displayaffectioninpublic.
40 .Whenholdinghandsdon'tletyourhandgolimp.