89 .Createspecialtimetobealonetogether.
90 .Don'tanswerthephoneatintimatemomentsorifsheissharingvulnerablefeelings.
91 .Gobicyclingtogether,evenifit'sjustashortride.
92 .Organizeandprepareapicnic.(Remembertobringapicniccloth.)
93 .Ifshehandlesthelaundry,bringtheclothestothecleanersoroffertodothewash.
94 .Takeherforawalkwithoutthechildren.
95 .Negotiateinamannerthatshowsherthatyouwanthertogetwhatshewantsandyoualsowant
whatyouwant.Becaring,butdon'tbeamartyr.
96 .Letherknowthatyoumissedherwhenyouwentaway.
97 .Bringhomeherfavoritepieordessert.
98 .Ifshenormallyshopsforthefood,offertodothefoodshopping.
99 .Eatlightlyonromanticoccasionssothatyoudon'tbecomestuffedandtiredlater.
100 .Askhertoaddherthoughtstothislist.
101 .Leavethebathroomseatdown.
THEMAGICOFDOINGLITTLETHINGS........................................................................................
It'smagicwhenamandoeslittlethingsforhiswoman. Itkeepsherlovetankfullandthescoreeven.
Whenthescoreiseven,oralmosteven,awomanknowssheisloved,whichmakeshermoretrustingand
lovinginreturn.Whenawomanknowsshe'sloved,shecanlovewithoutresentment.
Doinglittlethingsforawomanisalsohealingforaman.Infact,thoselittlethingswilltendtohealhis
resentmentsaswellashers.Hebeginstofeelpowerfulandeffectivebecauseshe'sgettingthecaringshe
needs.Botharethenfulfilled.
What a Man Needs
Justasmenneedtocontinuedoinglittlethingsforawoman,sheneedstobeparticularlyattentiveto
appreciatethelittlethingshedoesforher.Withasmileandathanksshecanlethimknowhehasscored
apoint.Amanneedsthisappreciationandencouragementtocontinuegiving.Heneedstofeelhecan
makeadifference.Menstopgivingwhentheyfeeltheyarebeingtakenforgranted.Awomanneedstolet
himknowthatwhatheisdoingisappreciated.
Thisdoesn't mean thatshehas topretendthateverythingisnowperfectly wonderfulbecausehehas