In chapter 8 ,you'lldiscoverhow men andwomen givethe kindoflovethey needand notwhatthe
oppositesexneeds.Menprimarilyneedakindoflovethatistrusting,accepting,andappreciative.Women
primarily needakindoflovethatiscaring,understanding,andrespectful.Youwilldiscoverthesixmost
commonwaysyoumayunknowinglybeturningoffyourpartner.
Inchapter 9 ,wewillexplorehowtoavoidpainfularguments.Menwilllearnthatbyactingasiftheyare
always right they may invalidate a woman's feelings. Women will learn how they unknowingly send
messages ofdisapprovalinsteadof disagreement, thus igniting aman'sdefenses. The anatomy ofan
argumentwillbeexploredalongwithmanypracticalsuggestionsforestablishingsupportivecommunication.
Chapter 10 willshowhowmenandwomenkeepscore(keeparecordofpasteventsoractions)differently.Menwill
learnthatforVenusianseverygiftoflovescoresequallywitheveryothergift,regardlessofsize.Insteadof
focusingononebiggiftmenareremindedthatthelittleexpressionsoflovearejustasimportant; 101
ways toscorepointswithwomenarelisted. Women,however,willlearntoredirecttheirenergiesinto
waysthatscorebigwithmenbygivingmenwhattheywant.
Inchapter 11 ,you'lllearnwaystocommunicatewitheachotherduringdifficulttimes.Thedifferentways
menandwomenhidefeelingsarediscussedalongwiththeimportanceofsharingfeelings.TheLoveLetter
Techniqueisrecommendedforexpressingnegativefeelingstoyourpartner,asawayoffindinggreater
loveandforgiveness.YouwillunderstandwhyVenusianshaveamoredifficulttimeaskingforsupport,as
wellaswhyMartianscommonlyresistrequests.
Inchapter 12 youwilllearnhow thephrases"couldyou"and"canyou"turnoffmenandwhattosay
instead.Youwilllearnthesecretsforencouragingamantogivemoreanddiscoverinvariouswaysthe
powerofbeingbrief,direct,andusingthecorrectwording.
Inchapter 13 you'lldiscoverthefourseasonsoflove.Thisrealisticperspectiveofhowlovechangesand
growswillassistyouinovercomingtheinevitableobstaclesthatemergeinanyrelationship.Youwilllearn
how your past or your partner's past can affect your relationship in the present and discover other
importantinsightsforkeepingthemagicoflovealive.
IneachchapterofMen Are from Mars,Women Are from Venusyouwilldiscovernewsecretsfor
creatingloving andlastingrelationships. Eachnew discovery willincreaseyourability tohavefulfilling
(gratify,satisfy)relationships.
GOODINTENTIONSARENOTENOUGH..........................................................................................
Falling in love is always magical. Itfeelseternal, as if lovewilllast forever. We naively believe that
somehowweareexemptfromtheproblemsourparentshad,freefromtheoddsthatlovewilldie,assured
thatitismeanttobeandthatwearedestinedtolivehappilyeverafter.