Theyfellinloveagain.Theirrelationshipmiraculouslychanged.Nolongerheadingtowardadivorce,they
lookedforwardtosharingtherestoftheirlivestogether.Jimsaid,"Thisinformationaboutourdifferences
hasgivenmebackmywife.ThisisthegreatestgiftIcouldeverreceive.Wearelovingeachotheragain."
Sixyearslater,whentheyinvitedmetovisittheirnewhomeandfamily,theywerestilllovingeachother.
Theywerestilldunkingmeforhelpingthemtounderstandeachotherandstaymarried.
Althoughalmosteveryonewouldagreethatmenandwomenaredifferent,howdifferentisstillundefined
for most people. Many books in the last ten years have forged ahead, attempting to define these
differences.Thoughimportantadvanceshavebeenmade,manybooksareone_sidedandunfortunately
reinforcemistrustandresentmenttowardtheoppositesex.Onesexisgenerallyviewedasbeingvictimized
bytheother.Adefinitiveguidewasneededforunderstandinghowhealthymenandwomenaredifferent.
Toimproverelationsbetweenthesexesitisnecessarytocreateanunderstandingofourdifferencesthat
raises self-esteem and personal dignity while inspiring mutual trust, personal responsibility, increased
cooperation,andgreaterlove.Asaresultofquestioningmorethan 25 , 000 participantsinmyrelationship
seminarsIhavebeenabletodefineinpositivetermshowmenandwomenaredifferent.Asyouexplore
thesedifferencesyouwillfeelwallsofresentmentandmistrustmeltingdown.
Openingtheheartresultsin greaterforgivenessandincreasedmotivationtogiveandreceiveloveand
support.Withthisnewawareness,youwill,Ihope,gobeyondthesuggestionsinthisbookandcontinueto
developwaysinwhichyoucanrelatelovinglytotheoppositesex.
Alloftheprinciplesinthisbookhavebeentestedandtried.Atleast 90 percentofthemorethan 25 , 000
individuals questioned have enthusiastically recognized themselves in these descriptions. If you find
yourselfnoddingyourheadwhilereadingthisbook,saying"Yes,yesthisismeyou'retalkingabout,"then
youaredefinitelynotalone.Andjustasothershavebenefitedfromapplyingtheinsightsinthisbook,you
canaswell.
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus reveals new strategies for reducing tension in
relationshipsandcreatingmorelovebyfirstrecognizingingreatdetailhowmenandwomenaredifferent.
Itthen offers practicalsuggestionsabout howto reducefrustration anddisappointment andto create
increasinghappinessandintimacy.Relationshipsdonothavetobesuchastruggle.Onlywhenwedonot
understandoneanotheristheretension,resentment,orconflict.
Somanypeoplearefrustratedintheirrelationships.Theylovetheirpartners,butwhenthereistension
theydonotknowwhattodotomakethingsbetter.Throughunderstandinghowcompletelydifferentmen
andwomenare,youwilllearnnewwaysforsuccessfullyrelatingwith, listeningto,andsupportingthe
oppositesex.Youwilllearnhowtocreatetheloveyoudeserve.Asyoureadthisbookyoumaywonder
howanybodysucceedsinhavingasuccessfulrelationshipwithoutit.