Coaching, Mentoring and Managing: A Coach Guidebook

(Steven Felgate) #1

The Coaching Role: Inspiring and Motivating


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Did you answer all five “false”? Of course. That’s
because the word “false” always becomes associated
(consciously or unconsciously) with betrayals of
confidence ... especially at the coach level! If you learn
only one lesson from this manual, learn to fight the urge to
look important by telling all you know! That one truth
alone is worth a whole library of books like this one.


  • Supporting your team members
    Let them know that, right or wrong, you rise or fall with
    them. If every member believes you will support him in
    the daily performance of team duties, your team will
    respond to your goals. Support is tied to synergy. As soon
    and as fast as you can get across that you win when they
    win, you begin knitting together and as a unit are able to
    accomplish more. It requires confidence, and that requires
    knowledge.

  • Rewarding performance
    Use rewards generously. Remember, what gets rewarded
    gets repeated. Rewards run a spectrum from promotions,
    raises or bonuses to a day off, bowling or lunch, to
    complimenting him or giving him a sticker of merit or a
    humorous “award.” They don’t have to be monetary.
    Praise can be one of the most important of all rewards
    when properly used.
    Here are five keys to making praise a valuable reward for
    good performance.

    1. Praise only when it is truly deserved, not to pump up
      an employee. Overpraising, or praising a ridiculous
      action, has a ring of insincerity that fools no one.

    2. Criticize in private, compliment in public. When
      employees make a mistake, they should never be
      admonished publicly. Praise anytime, anywhere.

    3. Don’t assume that people would be embarrassed with
      praise. Be sensitive to their personalities and choose
      the time and place with that in mind. Recognition and
      praise are a way to honor them.




“I don’t care how
great, how famous
or successful a man
or woman may be,
each hungers for
applause.”
— George M.
Adams
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