The answers to these questions will help you when you start
recommending locations and setting up dates.
- Plant the Seed by Recommending a Location:
Once you've met a woman you're interested in going out with, give
them a recommendation to one of the places you'd like, but here's the
catch: Don't invite her to go there with you. All I want you to do is
recommend the place, and I want you to do it early on in the
conversation. Make sure you really sell it: 1) tell her what's special about
this venue, and 2) what the place means to you, what you love about it,
and why she needs to check it out.
- Wait to Invite:
After you recommend the place, just keep talking. Tell stories, be
entertaining, flirt, tease – just keep the conversation going.
- Invite Her:
So, you've recommended a great place without inviting her. Then
you kept the conversation going, being as conversationally attractive as
you could. If she's giving you signs of comfort and interest, it's time to
invite her out. The key to setting up the date is to be specific: pick a date
and place. Say something like this, "Hey, this Thursday I'm headed over
to that [fill in the blanks with what you had recommended earlier] I was
telling you about, you should come along. I think you'd really enjoy it."
- Agree or Disagree:
At this point, she's going to do one of three things: