Attract And Seduce

(Elliott) #1

If someone suggests that time spent in friend zone is wasted, then
they’re suggesting that time spent with the other person doing non-
romantic activities isn’t valuable. They’re suggesting that the point of the
interaction was love or sex and to “only be friends” is a bad thing.


Yes, the feeling of rejection sucks, but having a new friend should be
a reward in itself. Friends, both male and female, who are awesome, will
make you a more interesting and attractive person. More women will
come into your life because the group of friends you have is large, and
full of life.


I also meet guys who felt angry and entitled, the ones who think that
the woman did something wrong by not reciprocating their feelings.


If your desire to get out of friend zone is based on the feeling of
anger or that you are entitled, and you have hostility towards her for not
returning the feeling, then you need to change your attitude. No one is
obligated to return romantic or sexual interest;


Understanding that you’re not entitled to any reciprocation, and
learning to empathize with people and cherish new friendships when
they’re not interested in you romantically will in the end help you to
become a better person and seducer. You’ll have more friends, more
understanding, and in the end, you’ll be a more interesting person.
Rejection sucks, but the friend zone is not, in fact, a bad place.


How to avoid the friend zone from the start


To avoid the friend zone you have to have attraction, and then use
that attraction to take a bold romantic step forward when the opportunity
arises.


The guys who ended up in friend zone generally had bad timing. As
I’ve mentioned before, seduction is about timing, not speed. If you’re

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