had. If you've been quiet your whole life or have felt insecure about your
voice, it's probably worth a trip to one of these pathologists to see if it's a
medical condition or something that can be worked out through therapy.
Work on developing your own style. When women meet you, they
will automatically make assumptions about you based on your
appearance and your style. They don't have a choice; humans need to
categorize things. If I tell you about a friend of mine who wears all black,
has tattoos, and rides a motorcycle, you create a person in your head,
even though you've never met my friend.
Here are a few general tips for improving your own style:- Wear clothes that fit your body shape perfectly; not over-sized bags
that are comfortable. - Wear clothes that compliment your skin complexion. Different
colors work for different skin types. Find out which colors make you
look best. - Wear accessories and clothes that express something about you. Hat,
belt, shoes, shirts all communicate who you are. - Wear one thing that's interesting – a conversation piece.
- Don't wear too many accessories. Even though it will spark
conversation, it also will make you look like a Christmas tree. And
which woman wants to date a tree? (This can vary based on what
look you're going for.) - Don't wear sandals anywhere that's not the beach or the bathroom.
- Stand out. If you're dressed just like all of your friends, it
communicates that you are just like them. Should she date you or
them? Be the exception.
If you're not happy with your current style, here are a few questions you
can ask yourself to help you improve your style:
- What are you wearing when you leave the house?