Chapter 22 :
Advanced Text Game And Avoiding Flaking
It doesn't matter if you met her out at a bar or on a dating website or
dating apps: Texting is going to happen, and you’ll want to get it right.
Here’s what you need to know:
Texting is great for logistics, or solving immediate problems.
Texting does not create true attraction or connection. That happens in
person. Which is why most texting is unnecessary flare. In fact, the
more texts you send the more likely it is that you’ll cause a problem
rather than support your seduction. Recognize that if you follow the
steps leading up to a properly seeded date, all you need to do is send
where and when you’ll meet, and solve any incidental problems
regarding the date, everything else is extra.
People will go out of their way to be around someone they’re
interested in, that means you should be working on you in-person
skills, and always practicing seeding dates. If they flake without
rescheduling, you need to work on your value building steps.
Most non-logistical/problem solving texts are for validation on the
part of the insecure would-be seducer. Never send a text for the sole
purpose of getting a response. Be confident that if you’ve seeded a
date that she agreed to, you’re doing just fine. Ask yourself, “what is
the purpose of this text in my overall seduction?” if it doesn’t have
one, then don’t send it.
Improve your grammar and spelling, and you’ll have fewer
communication problems.
Texting problems
I have talked to literally tens of thousands of men through the
Stylelife Academy. As such, we hear a number of problems that guys