Have you done anything interesting with the paint or wallpaper?
Using warm accent colors can give a room a very cozy feeling. If
not, maybe consider it.
Is your place clean? If not, you’ll need to put some time in cleaning
it or hire someone to come by.
Do you have anything interesting to eat or drink in your house?
Everyone loves good food. A simple thing is to cut up a fruit plate
with honey – something delicious and easy to share with a potential
lover. I also suggest rare types of drinks that you can offer like mead,
a special cocktail, a rare wine, or something else you wouldn't find in
the average guy's house.
What does your house smell like? There are a lot of different scents
out there, so which one do you enjoy most? Choose one. I prefer
incense, but you can use a variety of air fresheners to give your place
a great smell.
Does your house look comfortable? This question refers to the
fabrics and textures of the furniture in your home. Look at your place
and ask, "Would I want to lay down and cuddle up on my couch? My
bed? My floor?" If not, then what can I do to make my place feel
more comfortable?
What do you have that will make getting physical easier? Do you
have condoms and lubrication by your bed? Massage oil? These
things can all boost your sexual experience.
What kind of music do you like to put on? I suggest using Spotify to
make a playlist of sexy and exciting songs. You can find my personal
playlist by following the link at the end of this chapter.
A few years ago, Neil Strauss took me to a party at his friend's
apartment. The event was fantastic, and all the women were having a
great time. Mostly of the fun came down to how entertaining it was to be
at his place. His secret was setting up each room in his apartment to have
a completely different feel. One room had co-operative video games
people could play. Another room had a dancer pole with couches on
either side. Another was filled with fantastic art, and each piece of art he