If I point with one finger when my friend approaches, it means that’s
the woman I’m interested in. This lets him know to steer clear of her,
while helping to build comfort with her friends.
If I point with two fingers, it means that I can’t remember the
person’s name. It’s his cue to introduce himself to that person, and
ask their name.
If I point with three fingers it means, I’d like him to help me politely
eject from this group. There are some conversations you don’t want
to be in, and sometimes it can be tough to leave. Having a friend
come over and say, “Hey, you need to close out your tab,” or
something similar can allow you to leave without being rude.
Debrief Afterwards - This is probably the most important part of
working with a friend. Either when you get home, or the next day, sit
down with your friend and go over what you did wrong and what you did
right. Start to plan out your next practice session based on your debrief
sessions.
Respect Your Wingman Friend - Some guys like to tease each
other relentlessly. This is great for when you’re hanging out together,
but not for attraction and seduction. When you and your friend are in a
group together, you should always be propping each other up, never
tearing each other down. In addition, don’t let other people tear your
partner down. Stand up for him and make sure he stands up for you.
You’re in it together.
One of the most powerful symbols that you're an interesting person is
that you have interesting people around you. People who are not only fun
to be around, but people who are just as interesting as you are.
Picture this: You're out at a bar or club and you approach a woman.
You're the wing tonight, so you introduce your buddy and let everyone in
the group know that he's an amazing guy. You just made him interesting,
but you didn't do anything for yourself, right?