Now, after practicing, he’s managed to become the kind of guy that
can approach anyone, even high-caliber women, with confidence.
How does he do it?
Well, he uses a conversation starter, commonly referred to as an
“opener.”
An opener is a scripted line that helps to start a conversation, and
most importantly, makes the person or group comfortable talking with
you.
Think about it this way: If you are approached by a complete
stranger, what would you be thinking? What does he want from me?
Why should I answer? How long do I have to talk to him? These
questions, if they go unanswered would make you uncomfortable, and
you’d probably not want them around.
So here is the principle: To start a conversation with strangers you
must make them comfortable talking with you.
Why?
If anything you say or do feels uncomfortable, they'll probably run
for the hills as fast as possible. This is why guys are rejected so often
when they approach, because they make the woman and/or her friends
uncomfortable.
Here are five golden rules for starting conversations:
1. Say something that’s interesting.