Attract And Seduce

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Chapter 8 :

The Bridging Technique:

Keep Talking!

"If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything
else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits.
There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go
beyond them." - Bruce Lee

You might think that the biggest problem I've run into as a seduction
coach was getting guys to approach intimidating beautiful women, but
you’d be wrong. The biggest problem, by far, was getting guys to not run
away after a few minutes talking to a group of strangers.


Most of the time, a student would walk up, open, get the
conversation going, get nervous, and eject from the group. When I'd ask
why the student left, the answer would invariably be, "I couldn't think of
anything else to say."


Here's the thing: you do have something to say. In fact, you have lots
of things to say. You're just freezing up, because you are likely worried
about judgment from the group. Or you are overthinking the group's
opinion of you.


First piece of advice: Don't panic. This happens to most students and
there’s a way to fix it. It's called "bridging."


Bridge: The all-purpose conversational linking technique

A bridge can be any question or any observation.
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