“Would you please help me buy a new computer?”
“Would you please help me buy a new stereo?”
“Would you please help me figure out my VCR?”
“Would you please help me rearrange my furniture?”In each of these examples, the man has the opportunity to
be a friend, but more important, the woman has been able to
create a fertile opportunity for him to experience being helpful
to her and thus become more attracted to her. In Chapter 17,
we will explore more deeply the dynamics of what makes a
man more interested in a woman.
268 / JOHN GRAY, PH.D.