- If you like opera but don’t like pop concerts, then try going
to a concert with friends. You may meet your soul mate. - If you don’t like to dance, then definitely get out there and
dance. Take dance lessons and go to dance competitions. - If you like to eat out, then take cooking lessons and learn
to cook. - If you love to cook, never miss an opportunity to cook for
your friends. Let it be known to all what a good cook you
are. - If you drink and generally hang out at a bar, then try
hanging out in a coffee shop where no alcohol is served.
Your soul mate may not drink. - If you don’t like loud music, get some friends together and
go to where the music is loud. Wear earplugs and dance a
lot. If you meet someone, then let him or her know you
would like to talk sometime when you can hear each other. - If you are not drawn to water sports, then go on a vacation
where most of the people love water sports. - If you’ve never been on a cruise, or you are not even inter-
ested in one, that’s all the more reason to go on a cruise and
meet someone who loves cruises. - If you hate standing in lines, then your soul mate may be
the patient one waiting in a line somewhere. If you
346 / JOHN GRAY, PH.D.