questions. People will love to help you. Men particularly
love to be experts.- If you are not interested in having a great view, then your
soul mate will always prefer a view. Go to places that
promise a commanding and spectacular view to meet your
soul mate. - Be a tourist in your own town. Pretend that you are alone
and from out of town. You will meet all kinds of people who
want to share your town with them. You will discover things
that you never knew existed and in the process could meet
the right person for you. Get help from the office of tourism.
Visit all the sights, parks, museums, colleges, and universit-
ies. Take guided tours. Your soul mate may be a tourist who
is being guided to come to your town to find you. - If you don’t like weddings, this is the time to start going.
People are most inspired at weddings. If you are not drawn,
then your partner probably is. You may need him or her to
inspire you. - Visit comedy clubs with friends. When you are laughing
and having a good time, it brings out the best in you.
Sometimes when you are feeling your best, you will attract
the best person for you. - When you are in a bad mood, do something that you really
don’t like doing. This way it can’t make you feel worse.
Sometimes when we are in a bad mood, deep inside we are
feeling our deep need to be loved and to be loving. This
vulnerability can attract the right per-
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