Model Marriage
- The entirely new experience, the sex act, is described as a humbling
experience.
If a man find a damsel that is a virgin ... and lie with her ... the man that lay with
her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his
wife; because he hath humbled her...Deuteronomy 22:28-29You need a private, secluded atmosphere, free from any form of interference and intimidation
to take your initial humble steps to try out what you’ve been taught.^3
What to Do During the Honeymoon
- Take memorable pictures of yourselves during the honeymoon (not naked,
please)! - Say nice things to each other: “I love you”, “I’m glad I married you”, “You look
beautiful”, etc. should be common in your conversations. - Embrace each other often and take naps or watch TV while one rests his/her head
on the other’s lap or bossom. - Talk with each other on any matters of interest to enhance fellowship and
friendship. Talk about the wedding event, people you were surprised to see, plans
for new home, etc. - Feel free to kiss and give each other pecks on the cheeks, lips and back of hand as
you walk around. Kissing and touching must not only be a prelude to sex. - Have sex as many times as you have energy to perform in a day. A good stock of
tiger-nuts and malta guiness, or other energy boosters (like the Red Bulldrink)
they say, may do some good. - Feel free to have sex at any time of the day.
- Explore having sex at different locations during the honeymoon. For example, in
the bathroom, hall, bedroom, kitchen or in the car, (but not in the full view of
others). - Try different positions taught during the marriage counselling.
- Try having sex with your clothes on after returning from a walk.
- Take turns to bath each other, playing with your bodies in the process.
- Sometimes sleep naked in each other’s arms.
- You may walk around naked, like Adam and Eve in the house or room if you are
sure there will be no intruders. - Go for walks under moonlight or on a quiet road while holding each other hand-
in-hand, around the waist, or around the shoulders. The husband may
occasionally lift the wife if he has the strength to do so. - Swim or play games of interest, stealing glances at each other and touching each
other, from time to time.