Model Marriage by Bishop Dag Heward Mills

Model Marriage

Sexual Excitement in Women

The Pre-orgasmic Phase

(a) Sexual excitement in a woman builds up slowly. She is turned on as her husband

kisses and carresses her, and gradually moves on to stimulate her very sensitive

areas such as the nipples and clitoris.

(b) As the excitement mounts, she starts breathing hard. This may be accompanied

by moans and gasps of pleasure.

(c) With further excitement, there is an increase in the lubrication of her vagina.

(d) She may start moving more with very sensual body movements, signalling that

she is ready to be “mounted”.

(e) During the sex act itself, as her husband thrusts in and out of her vagina, varying

the tempo from slow to fast and back, her excitement increases progressively and

orgasm approaches.

The Orgasmic Phase

(a) Usually begins with a quickening of breath.

(b) The woman then feels a deep, increasing feeling of sweetness/warmth/excitement

in the deep pelvic region which peaks/explodes to involve the whole body.

(c) During the actual peak, there are involuntary movements (movements which you

cannot really control) of the pelvis, buttocks, and thighs which can best be

described as spasms or jerks in an upward and forward direction of those parts of

the body already mentioned.

(d) The jerks may be followed by stiffening of the body at the peak of the jerks.

(e) One slowly recovers from the peak to be engulfed/bathed/washed in a feeling

which can be described as a floating feeling, exhilaration, warmth, satisfaction

and well-being.

(f) The clitoral experience can usually be repeated about two or three times

depending on the ability of the man to continue stimulation.^3

How to Deliberately Achieve an Orgasm in the Wife

The key to deliberately achieving orgasm is the clitoris. The clitoris consists of a hooded part
on the female external genitalia, at the tip of which is found a button, (Refer to Fig. 9 on page
114 ).

(a) There must be a reasonable amount of kisses, body stimulation and foreplay.

Then the wife will lie on her back and the husband will gently stimulate both the

hood and the button of the clitoris with his fingers.

(b) Stimulate your wife best by rubbing the surface of the button and also by rubbing

up and down the hood.