What it Means to Have a Choleric Husband or Wife- Finances:
- He is an achiever and successful.
- He is a great provider.
- He does not want his wife and children to be in need, and does
not understand why there should be a problem after he has done
all these.
- Spirituality:
- He is an achiever, a pioneer, and a builder.
- He is hard-working.
- He has a tendency to believe more in his strength than in God.
- Commitment:
- He is very committed.
- He has a dogged determination that makes him achieve, even if
he is not gifted.^1
Weaknesses of a Choleric Husband
- His emotional nature is the least developed part of his temperament.
- He does not sympathize easily with others and does not naturally show or express compassion.
- He is often embarrassed or disgusted by the tears of others and is usually insensitive
to their needs. - He reflects little appreciation for music or the fine arts unless his secondary temperament traits are
those of a melancholic. - His most serious weakness is anger.
- Cholerics are extremely hostile people.
- They use their wrath as a weapon to get what they want because they come to realize
that other people are usually afraid of their strong outbursts. - He may willfully cause pain to others and enjoy it.
- His wife is usually afraid of him and he tends to terrify his children.
- He is a door-slammer, table-pounder and horn-blower. Any person who gets in his
way, retards his progress or fails to perform up to the level of his expectations bears
the brunt of his wrath. - Cholerics tend to carry a grudge for a long time.
- He often falls prey to ulcers by the time he is 40 years.
- Cholerics are sarcastic and can make scathing remarks which can wither the insecure
or devastate the less combative. - He usually leaves a path of damaged psyches and fractured egos because the other
temperament types wilt under his treatment of them.