Chapter 44

Be Loving towards Her

AwomanIsacentreofkindnessandabeingwhoiscompletelyemotion-
al.Herexistencedependsoncompassionandaffection.Shelongstobe
loved byothers andthe more the better. She sacrifices herself a great
dealinordertoseekpopularity.Thischaracterissostronginherthatif
sherealisesnobodylovesher,thensheregardsherselfasafailure.She
becomesdisappointedinherselfandfeelsdejected.Therefore,certainly
onecanclaimthatthesecretofasuccessfulmaninahappymaritallifeis
his expression of love towards his wife.

Dear Sir!Your wife before marrying you, was enjoyingher parents'
love andkindness.Now thatshe hasentered intomarriage agreement
withyouandnowthatshehaschosentolivewithyoufortherestofher
life,sheexpectsyouto fulfilher desiresforlove andaffection.She ex-
pectsyoutoshow morelovetoherthanshereceivedfromherparents
andfriends.Shehastrustedyouextremelyandthatiswhyshehasen-
trusted you with her existence.

Thesecretto ahappymarriageisthe expressionof youraffectionto
your wife.If you want to conquerher heart, if youwant tomake her
obedientwith regardtoyourdemands,ifyouwantto strengthenyour
marriage,makeherloveyou,orremainfaithfultoyou,or...,thenyou
must always show your affection to her and express your love.

Ifyoudepriveyourwifeofkindness,thenshewould loseinterestin
herhouse,childrenand,aboveall,inyou.Yourhousewouldalwaysbe
ina messycondition.She wouldnot be preparedtomakeeffortsfora
personwhodoesnotloveher.Ahouseinwhichthereisnoaffection,re-
semblesaburninghell,eventhoughitmaybeverytidyandfulloflux-
urious goods.