husband.Shesaid:'Iusedtocomparemyhusband'sfacewithothermen
and I regretted my marriage with him'."
DearMadam!ifyouareinterested inan everlastingmarriage; ifyou
donot wantmentaldistress;andifyouwant toconductanormallife,
thenstopbeingselfishandforgetyourvainhopes.Donotmakecompli-
mentsforothermen.Donotthinkofanymanotherthanyourhusband.
Do not think to yourself:
"I wish I had married so and so"
"I wish my husband looked like... ;"
"I wish my husband's job was... ;"Whyshouldyouimprisonyourselfwiththesethoughts?Whyshould
youupsetthefoundationsofyourmarriage?Ifanyofthosewisheshad
cometrue,howwouldyouknowthatyouwouldhavebeenmoresatis-
fied?Areyousurethat thewivesof thoseso-called"faultless"menare
satisfied with them?
DearMadam!ifyourhusbandsuspectsthatyoushowinterestinother
men, he would be disheartened and would lose interest in you. You
mustnotcutjokeswithothermenorkeepcompanywiththem.Menare
sosensitivethattheycannoteventoleratetheirwivestoshowaninterest
in a picture of another man.
TheHolyProphet(SA)stated:"Anymarriedwomanwholooksatoth-
er men, would be subject to the vehement wrath of Allah"