- Touch.
If a woman’s still interested she’ll seek an opportunity to lightly touch
the man’s arm accidentally on purpose, or with a genuine reason. If both
people are happy with the touching process they’ll increase the amount.
An easy way to move to the touching stage is by shaking hands.
Touching a person’s hand is more intimate than touching an arm.
You may not have thought that so much choreography exists in the initial
stages of courtship and the steps may seem incidental. They’re not. Without
going through these five stages, which may only take a few moments at most,
the courting ritual stops before it begins.
Highlighting gender differences .......................................................
People who want to attract the attention of the opposite sex emphasise their
gender to make themselves sexually attractive and appealing. Women pout,
arch their backs, and lean forward, bringing their arms close to their bodies
to push their breasts together to create a deep and appealing cleavage. Men
stand tall, expand their chests, and hook their thumbs over their waistbands
or into their trouser pockets with their fingers exposed to subtly point
towards their nether regions.Unless you want to be perceived as a hot totty or aggressively on the make,
keep your gestures muted in the early stages of the courtship process.
Otherwise you may find your signs of possible interest being interpreted as
signals of immediate availability.Walking, wiggling, and swaggering
The way you walk reveals your interest. Both men and women take on youth-
ful characteristics when seeking the other’s attention. They create the
impression that they have an unlimited source of energy by the way they vig-
orously bounce along. Unlimited energy can be very sexy because it indicates
the promise of being a tireless mate.A woman rolls her hips and swings her arms further back, exposing her soft
and supple flesh. Because women have wider hips than men as well as a
wider crotch gap between their legs they are able to walk with a rolling
motion that draws attention to the pelvic area. Men, being built differently,
can’t emulate this walk and find the difference sexually appealing. If you’ve
ever seen the film Some Like It Hotyou’re sure to remember the scene where
Marilyn Monroe walks down the railway platform, while Jack Lemmon and
Tony Curtis stare at her undulating bottom in awe. As Jack Lemmon says, this
remarkable movement was ‘like Jell-o on springs’.Chapter 13: Dating and Mating 217