Two Steps Forward, One Step Back
We don‘t realize how much we want the things we have... until we lose
them, that is. How about making someone want something new, by giving it to
them and then taking it away?
Sometimes a woman will be open and warm and other times, she'll be
closed and cold. This can be because of all kinds of different factors... how
you're acting, how she's feeling, the setting you're in, what's on her mind, or
what kinds of hormones are running through her body.
I want to talk about a technique that I've found works in almost ALL of
these situations. A natural extension of my ideas about teasing and playing
hard to get is what I call, "TAKING TWO STEPS FORWARD AND ONE STEP
BACK."
Now, when most people hear this phrase, they think of problems arising
that cause a loss of ground that has to be reclaimed before moving on, or a
setback that has to be overcome before proceeding further. What I'm talking
about is DELIBERATELY stopping when things are WORKING in order to
ACCELERATE the process.
What? Did I just say to stop something that's working in order to be
successful? I sure did. And if you pay attention to what I'm about to share with
you, you'll learn one of the most profound and important lessons about how to
be more successful with women and dating.
Here it is in a nutshell:
If you're doing something that you can tell she likes, stop doing it, then
wait a while and start doing it again. This on/off/on/off sequence is ULTRA
powerful in creating a magnetic ATTRACTION inside of her.
I personally believe that two factors that AMPLIFY a woman's ATTRACTING
to a man are the concepts of TENSION and ANTICIPATION. Tension is that
feeling inside that makes you sit on the edge of your seat, and anticipation is
that feeling in your chest that you get when you know something exciting
could happen at any minute.
If you can learn how to take control of these feelings and help her
experience them as a result of being around you, then you will DRAMATICALLY
improve your success with women. If you want to see a great example of this
principle at work, go rent the classic movie TOP GUN.
Watch how Tom Cruise handles the situations with Kelly McGillis... they‘re
PERFECT examples of how to do what I'm teaching.
Here are two of my favorites: