Give Her Just a Taste
When you give her anything, give her just a taste.
A taste is like taking half a step forward and then half a step back again.
If you‘re touching her in a new way, whether casual or intimate, just do it
enough for her to tell how good it is and then stop for a bit. If you‘re going to
be romantic, pick a poem, give flowers, or prepare a home-cooked dinner, but
don‘t use them all at once or any of them very frequently.
A taste tantalizes by giving us a moment of the flavor but not the whole
experience. If the taste was good, it makes us want more. It also keeps the
taste good by preventing it from getting boring. Tastes are rare.
A taste can be mysterious, only providing a suggestion of what the full
flavor is like. We‘re programmed to pay more attention to the new and
unknown. We think more about mysterious things because we can‘t figure
them out, and we can‘t reduce them to what we already know. Even
something as unimportant as your age becomes interesting once you keep it
secret. I‘ve had girls spend hours begging me to tell them my age, offering me
all sorts of incentives to do so.
Give Her the Gift of Missing You
Once you start spending time together, make sure you leave her alone
from time to time to do something by yourself. This concept can be as simple
as walking away from her in a store to look at other items for a few minutes.
It could also be as major as not being available on a night you normally hang
out with her.
Attraction requires space. You aren‘t attracted to things that you either
have or know you can have at any time. Why don‘t most people who live in
New York visit the Statue Of Liberty often? Because they know they can
anytime they want. Attraction grows and thrives in the ―presence of absence.‖