James Bond Never Whines
REAL MEN don‘t whine about ANYTHING, EVER. They‘re extremely secure.
Don‘t say ―I‘m tired‖, ―I don‘t feel good‖, or ―I‘m worried about the future‖
in a whiny, unmotivated, ―I need sympathy‖ way.
Attractive men take the attitude ―Whatever it is, I can deal with it.‖ And
they don‘t like being around whining or whiners—unmotivated victims. Think
about this... if you don‘t want a woman who whines, you must never act that
way yourself.
No hemming and hawing.
Save it for when you‘re married. And even then, keep the WussBag
behavior to a minimum. It‘s just plain not attractive.
Be the Leader
Consider this excerpt from the book, ―13 Fatal Errors Managers Make and
How You Can Avoid Them‖:
"People fail in direct proportion to their willingness to accept socially
acceptable excuses for failure. Being a victim gives you a claim on the
sympathy of others, and it means you're not responsible for what happens,
and therefore escapes responsibility for his own failure."
Be your own leader through life.
People are generally unsure of themselves, so if you lead, they are likely to
follow. Believe your way is worth pursuing. Believe you can do whatever is
needed to turn a challenge into success.
Leaders establish themselves because they communicate confidence in
themselves and their decisions. They do it in a lot of ways.
They‘re not followers, so they don‘t hesitate because of differences in other
people‘s opinions. When they express their ideas, they‘re not seeking approval
but describing their reality. They make direct eye contact, stand tall, offer a
firm handshake, and speak in an authoritative tone of voice.
If you're too ̳shy‘ to make a move during a date with a woman, she knows
exactly what‘s going on. There are a lot of random moments where some
small response—or failure to respond—exposes what you really expect her to
think of you.