Chapter 9: Cocky Comedy In Detail
Cocky Comedy
After years of studying this stuff, I can tell you that the most powerful
way you can communicate with a woman is to use the magical formula I call
̳cocky comedy‘.
Cocky comedy is one of the most important pieces in the attraction
puzzle. Used correctly, it instantly communicates all the right things about you
and attracts women like a magnet all by itself. It‘s something that almost
EVERY ―naturally successful‖ guy does to attract women.
Now, it just doesn't make sense to some guys that teasing women,
busting their balls, being slightly arrogant, not kissing up to them, etc. could
or should make them feel attraction.
I can understand, because I was exactly the same way the first few times
I heard it and saw it.
I kept thinking to myself, "If I do this cocky and funny thing, I'm only
going to come across as arrogant... and that can't make women like me
more."
Well, was I ever wrong.
The key is to use both Comedy and Cockiness together at once. Cocky
alone comes across as insecure, and comedy alone usually comes across as
goofy and dumb. Combine both, however, and you get magic.
The right combination of cocky comedy communicates to a woman that
you‘re intelligent, witty, dominant, and challenging... and that you must be a
catch.
It creates tension, attraction, mystery, and rapport. There‘s no more
efficient way of dealing with attractive women, period. It's the best way I've
been able to find for a regular guy to communicate in a way that makes an
attractive woman feel that gut level ATTRACTION.
The process of Attraction is a difficult concept to understand. Most guys
don‘t get it. So, if you want to be able to create it, you have to understand
things that most guys don't.
Cocky comedy is one of those things. And this is good news. Because
when you use it properly, it INSTANTLY communicates to women that you are
a guy who ―gets it‖.