her about something she is insecure about, make fun of others... just
make sure it's making her laugh.- Give her a hard time and tease her about something as soon as you
possibly can. Now, I'm not talking about being MEAN here. I'm talking
about teasing a woman just like you might do with a family member.
This communicates total confidence and comfort in your own skin. - Hold yourself in a way that communicates confidence, leadership, and
dominance. Use good posture, move very slowly and confidently. Don't
laugh or smile very often. - Don't do "nice guy" stuff like buying drinks, giving compliments about
beauty, or acting needy. In the beginning you must keep your cool and
act as if YOU are the catch and she is the lucky one.
Flirting
Chemistry or Attraction MUST be SPARKED right at the beginning, and
it must be sparked by YOU.
It's important to realize that if you just want to get a woman's number or
email, you don't have to do anything fancy... you can usually get it in a minute
or two just by asking in a cool, confident way.
But if you're going to be talking to a woman for a while, or you're meeting
for tea, or whatever... you need to SPARK the chemistry and then keep it
going. Pulling away from her and teasing her are great ways to amplify the
chemistry once it's present, but the bottom line is YOU MUST SPARK THE
CHEMISTRY.
One of the best ways to create that initial spark is by ―flirting‖.
First I want to talk about the concept of flirting and why it's SO important
that you understand exactly what it is and how to do it with women.
To begin with, women know what flirting is, and they respond VERY
differently to flirtatious communication than they do to typical social
communication.
Again, if you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can begin
conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for
you.
If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual tension work, then you're
either going to have to become famous or make a LOT of money to be
successful with women.