This assumption leads to even worse problems, like fear of going out, fear
of talking to people, etc.
When you decide that there is some big reason that is preventing you from
even considering the POSSIBLITY of success with women, it begins to affect
EVERYTHING in your life.
So what's the solution to this MAJOR cause of failure for men?
I'd say that this is at LEAST a two-step process:
- You need to identify your own "Secret Excuse", and you need to look
around to find examples of men who have overcome the very same
"obstacle", and who have gone on to succeed with women. This will
provide you with some evidence that what you're dealing with is not
final and irreversible. - You need to get an education about women and what makes them feel
the emotion of ATTRACTION for men.
Right now you may be one of the ̳nice guys‘ who watches the jerks get all
the hot women while saying to your wussy self, ―They always fall for the
assholes; it‘s just not fair.‖ But it‘s precisely because life‘s not fair that you can
learn the skills to become a guy who attracts more than his fair share of hot
women, especially those who used to think were ―out of your league‖.
It‘s up to you to take control of your dating life and decide that you‘re
going to learn how to handle dating and women successfully. It‘s up to you
make the phrase ―life isn‘t fair‖ into a positive or negative thing.
Once you know this secret and start staring at hot babes with a glimmer in
your eye that says, ―You‘re used to things going your way stuff, but I know
that life‘s not fair and I can make things go my way if I make the effort‖, you
will be projecting such power that you will communicate your manly strength
straight through to the timid little girl inside of them.
Once you‘ve accepted you have the potential to improve, you also need to
accept that what you‘re doing now doesn‘t work. The reason it doesn‘t work is
that you don’t understand dating correctly!
It Doesn‘t Work the Way You Think It Does
Attraction does not happen the way as you would intuitively expect it. If it
did, you could figure out how to attract the woman/women of your dreams on
your own and wouldn‘t be reading this book. Still, you‘ve got to let go of the
way you think it should work so that you can start acting based on how it