- Innate mechanism: The innate mechanism is the hard-wired series
of internal events triggered by the sign stimulus, e.g. preparing the
body to release sperm. - Pattern of behavior: The pattern of behavior is the actual external
actions performed, e.g swimming back and forth in a zig-zag, which
can in turn become a sign stimulus for the other animal involved.
The fascinating thing to notice is that when certain steps of a gesture or
dance are not followed correctly, then it is all over because the female loses
interest. If the male fish doesn‘t swim in the right zig-zag pattern, the female
will move on to more skillful waters.
We have a lot more in common with animals and their behavior than we‘d
like to realize. We find mates, display to them, court them and mate with
them in similar ways.
You Must Trigger The Attraction
When a guy sees an attractive woman, his internal states change and a
common pattern of behavior begins. Women can tell a lot about your sexual
worthiness from the pattern you display, and one misstep can destroy their
interest.
But if you can exhibit the right pattern of behavior and communication, you
can trigger the physical and emotional response called ATTRACTION... and
then the logic will handle itself.
As long as your behavior and communication has the right mood, tone, and
emotions behind it, her attraction switch will flip on and stay on no matter
what thoughts she has against it.
Tastes Good, Not Good For You
Since women are not in control of their attraction or the mechanism that
triggers it, sometimes they‘re attracted to things that aren't deemed 'sociably
acceptable' and won't even admit when they know they‘re attracted to it.
Women are also attracted to things that aren't necessarily what they say
they want. Women may say they want a nice, sensitive guy, and yet they
often pursue uncaring jerks.
Think food.
Do you always eat the thing that‘s good for you? Or do you eat what tastes
good to you? And are they always the same thing?