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Attraction Isn't A Choice

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  • Introduction

  • Seducing Women Feels Manipulative

  • Part 1: Attraction Isn‟t A Choice

  • Chapter 1: Attraction Isn‟t A Choice

  • An Open Letter From A Lonely, Beautiful Woman To Herself

  • Meeting Women Isn‘t Magic

  • The Power Of Attraction

  • Attraction Is Selfish

  • Men, Women, And Attraction

  • My Concept Of Attraction

  • An Exercise To Help You Start Thinking Differently

  • My Quick Take On Relationships........................................................

  • From The Mailbag

  • Following Common Social Courtesy Is Bad For Attraction

  • Filters And Amplifiers

  • Women Use Clues To Generalize

  • Do You Get It Or Not?

  • From The Mailbag

  • Chapter 2: Preparing for Change

  • The Center Of The Universe Misconception

  • Women Aren‘t The Center Of The Universe

  • YOU CAN be Successful with Women

  • The Secret Excuse

  • Your Excuse Isn‘t As Much Of A ―Secret‖ As You Think

  • It Doesn‘t Work the Way You Think It Does

  • Living In an Ideal World

  • The Nice Guy‘s ̳Real-Self‘ is ̳Real Manipulation‘...................................

  • You Meet Her Persona First

  • We Think Women Are Attracted the Same Way We Are

  • Elusive Obvious: What They Actually Want Is Already In You

  • REMEMBER... It‘s OK to Be a Man

  • Limiting Beliefs And Change

  • Fear of Failure and Not Taking Action

  • Fearing Failure on the Approach

  • Fearing the Unknown

  • Abundance and Scarcity

  • Taking Rejection Personally

  • Competing With Other Guys

  • Infinite Justice

  • Fear And The Kiss Test

  • The Sex Obligation

  • Preparing for Change: Positive Mindsets Bring Improvement

  • Lots of Preparation for a Few Key Moments

  • You CAN ―Get It‖

  • Default Behavior vs. Taking Charge

  • Speed of Implementation

  • Updating Patterns

  • Updating Your Pattern for Talking to Attractive Women

  • Fear

  • Expecting Instant Gratification

  • Natural Variation And Success Patterns

  • Avoiding Averages

  • Decision Leadership

  • Chapter 3: The Evolution and Biology of Attraction

  • 3.1 HOW ATTRACTION CAN BE ILLOGICAL

  • The Triune Brain

  • Internal Mental Power Struggles

  • Attraction As A Complex ―Chemical Reaction‖......................................

  • 3.2 WHY ATTRACTION IS ILLOGICAL & WHAT DOES ATTRACT WOMEN

  • Replicators

  • The ―Mating Mind‖

  • The Economics of Sex

  • The ̳Keep-Him‘ Strategy

  • Why Women Cheat

  • Competition in Sexual Evolution

  • Attraction, at Last

  • 3.3 ATTRACTIVE MEN

  • Ethology and the Study of Animals

  • You Must Trigger The Attraction

  • Tastes Good, Not Good For You

  • The Animal Inside

  • The Pre-Programmed Man Archetype Homing Mechanism

  • 3.4 LET GO OF EVOLUTIONARY HANG-UPS

  • We Can Change and Reprogram Ourselves

  • Competition

  • Remembering and Fearing Failures Over Successes

  • Part 2: Creating Attraction

  • Chapter 4: The Hidden Languages Of Attraction

  • Secret Languages And ―The Matrix‖

  • Finding Hidden Patterns

  • Unspoken Languages

  • The Universal Language

  • The Language of Secret Societies

  • The Series of Key Languages and How to Approach Them.....................

  • Body Language

  • Posture

  • ...Slow and Calculated Movements and Gestures

  • The Most Powerful Secret Language: Innate Body Language

  • The Hidden Language of Eye Contact

  • Communicating with Tone of Voice

  • The Secret Language of Cocky Comedy..............................................

  • You Can‘t Always Spell It Out For Her

  • Band The Tension and Energy of Two Magnets Wrapped by a Rubber

  • The Secret Language of Sex

  • The Secret Language of Flirting and Sexual Chemistry

  • The Usual And The Unusual

  • The Strength To Be Yourself

  • The Hidden Language of Self-Confidence............................................

  • You Don‘t Have to Agree with Rejection

  • Beliefs to Express Through Hidden Languages...................................

  • Chapter 5: Building Attraction

  • Social Proof

  • The Value of Social Proof

  • Connecting to Social Proof

  • How Do You Make Someone Want Something?

  • Becoming an Addiction

  • The Obsession Formula

  • Playing Hard to Get

  • Two Steps Forward, One Step Back

  • Give Her Just a Taste

  • Give Her the Gift of Missing You

  • Chapter 6: Attitude and Composure

  • The Attitude

  • Why Women Date Bartenders and Other Players

  • The Attitude Is Behind the Words

  • James Bond Never Whines

  • Be the Leader

  • Being Focused on your Goals is Attractive

  • Do but Don‘t Care

  • James Bond Doesn‘t Get Upset

  • Dealing with Tests and Challenges...................................................

  • James Bond Doesn‘t Rush Things

  • The Attitude Has Mystery, Tension

  • Women in Demand are Demanding

  • The Attitude May Sometimes Be a Burden

  • Summary of the Attitude

  • Date Attractive Women Chapter 7: Most Guys Do Exactly the Wrong Thing When They

  • The Way Of The Wuss

  • Why This Pattern Happens the Way It Does

  • Why Women Run Once the Submissive ―Nice Guy‖ Appears

  • Mistaking Affection for Attraction

  • Attraction and Being Nice

  • Affection vs. Attraction

  • Affection‘s EXPECTED, Attraction‘s EXCITING

  • Remember: Attraction Isn‘t A Choice

  • Adapting Wuss Behavior Into Attractive Behavior

  • Translating Between Affection and Attraction

  • Romance

  • Buying Gifts Is Formulaic, Not Romantic

  • Don‘t Misuse Romance

  • Romance Doesn‘t Create Attraction, It Amplifies Existing Attraction

  • Trying to Impress Her Reveals You‘re Attracted To Her

  • The Right Conflict Can Create Attraction

  • Women LIKE Drama, It Keeps Them Attracted

  • Turn Regular Conversation Into Flirtation

  • Never Give Women Exactly What They Want

  • Summing It All Up

  • Women Aren‘t Attracted to Guys They Perceive as Average

  • Part 3 : Turning It UP

  • Chapter 8: Don‟t Bore Her!

  • Boring Men Aren‘t Attractive

  • Why Wusses Bore Women

  • Don‘t Be Predictable

  • Be Different Instead

  • To Get From Affection to Attraction, Play Hard To Get

  • Avoid Boring Conversation

  • So What Do You Say?

  • Humor Technique: Fake Drama

  • Responding Correctly to Real Drama From a Woman

  • Reframe Ass Kissers

  • Talk About Sex

  • Read Clues

  • Be Mysterious

  • Chapter 9: Cocky Comedy In Detail

  • Cocky Comedy

  • What Cocky Comedy Communicates

  • Why Does Cocky Comedy Attract Women?

  • It‘s Cocky BALANCED With Comedy

  • How to Create Cocky Comedy

  • Examples Of Cocky Comedy

  • My Personal Favorite Cocky Comedy Standards

  • Using Cocky Comedy To Beat Tests

  • Exercise: Cocky Comedy

  • Remember That Cocky Comedy Is Desired When Unacknowledged

  • Don‘t Cave In and Collapse—Continue Building with Cocky Comedy

  • Overdoing It

  • Balancing Ball Busting With Regular Conversation..............................

  • Flirting

  • Flirt From The Very Start

  • An Example

  • Practicing

  • From The Mailbag

  • Chapter 10: Frequently Asked Questions

  • I Just Got My First Email Address... What Do I Do Now?‖

  • How Long Should I Wait?

  • What Should I Do If She Doesn‘t Call Back?

  • Should I Take Her Out To Dinner?

  • Her To Feel Attracted To Me? I Have This Girl That's Been A Friend For 47 Years... How Do I Get

  • How Do I Handle Competition From Other Guys?

  • Should I Date More Than One Woman?

  • Only Have Chicks Be Interested In Me For Short Term Sex? "How Do I Come Off As The Most Romantic Guy In The World, But

  • The End

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